It been a really looong time since a blogpost came your way. Ups and downs been keeping me at bay but now, babes I gatchu. Till death do us part.
Something been bothering me in the last few days. And where better to spill the beans than with you, my favourites?
How do people who do not find humour sexy survive a relationship? People who sulk up at jokes and anything funny. You ever made jokes to someone you are interested in and they reply with a sulky face with ‘i dont like people who joke ‘.
How am I even supposed to live with you if we cannot have a light moment? And see your teeth. And hear your funny laughter ? And tickle the clothes out of your beautiful body if you dont find anything i say funny ??
Laughter makes us forget all our problems and get taken away in the moment. In any case, who ever died of laughter? On the contrary, laughter increases our days on earth. And that way we can stay closer.
They say it’s all good to date a funny guy. He’ll make you laugh and laugh until you find yourself naked. And is getting naked with someone you love and getting down (not pun intended) to serious business not a wonderful thing?. Hopefully they are not are a joke bedroom matters.
I once met a girl. She would give Wema Sepetu a run for her money with her beauty and booty. Her fragrance was so captivating. So i approached her and started a conversation. Everything was going on all well till i started infusing jokes and humour into the conversation.
All of a sudden she sulks up and the conversation ends up becoming trash. I just walked out on her and told her it could never work out if she did not find humour a good quality in a guy.
What she fails to realise is the so obvious fact that humour is a recipe for relieving stress. Even the holy book and science agree on that. On a bad day, what would come in handy than a smile without having to spend a penny. Thats the power of a laughter. It makes you forget all your tribulations. With no penny spent.
Take the heat out of difficult situations with a joke in there.
Disclaimer, i am not saying you lose your mind and go making jokes at everything and everywhere. Find an appropirate environment to make jokes. Do not laugh at a funeral – that will be disrespectful and most importantlu, the deceased will haunt you.
Learn to infuse humour with romance and trust you me, your relationship will be sweeter than Nameless’ and Wahu’s.
And ofcourse, dont fail to thank me later. In the comment section.